what's the use complaining...
...when your love is gone?
before you follow...
i block people on sight if they fit usual dni criteria or i just don't like them. it's nothing personal, and sometimes i'll block for no real reason.
mspec lesbians/gays are not real <3 bi and pan mean the same thing but i'm past the point of caring about discourse. pronouns =/= gender, if you use the toothpaste flag i'm blocking you on sight, don't be fucking weird, etc etc. you get the point. here's an extended byf if you want to read that i guess
genshin fans you're on thin ice. be normal
extended byf
| terf ideology is heavily rooted in white supremacy and harms cis women and women of color, on top of being actively harmful and downright life-threatening to transfems. |
| truscum beliefs do nothing for the trans community. you are not an authority on whether or not other people are trans, and gender euphoria is the only real "requirement" there is. |
| media like south park, attack on titan, dream smp, beastars, toilet bound hanako-kun, etc. is fucking disgusting. get out of here with that shit. |
| mspec lesbians and gays are inherently harmful to both lesbians/gays and mspecs, and is, arguably, terf rhetoric. you are not "valid," you are spreading misinformation and hurting your community. |
| pronouns and presentation have no correlation to gender. if you believe they do, you're pathetic and honestly embarrassing. |
| the toothpaste flag / blue and green gay flag is just a lesbian recolor, and isn't necessary to begin with. if you want a decent gay flag, there are plenty of options, such as the gay flag by gilbert baker. |
| transandrophobia / transmisandry is not a thing. transmascs do not need a specific term for the type of transphobia they face; it's just called transphobia. (misandry isn't real regardless, and the fact people have decided they need a word for this just because transmisogyny exists is incredibly disrespectful.) |
| proshippers / "anti-antis" are in no way welcome here. romanticizing abuse, rape, incest, and pedophilia and portraying these subjects in a positive light is not "coping," regardless of what your therapist or people in these circles may have told you. (not all coping mechanisms are healthy. not all coping mechanisms are valid, nor are they really helping you.) adult proshippers are disgusting and need to get the fuck off the internet and stay away from children. |
| i am a singlet and it's not my place to comment on anything related to systems, but endogenic / non-traumagenic systems are also unwelcome. ratio + shut the fuck up + spreading misinformation about a heavily stigmatized disorder does in fact make you a shitty person |